Girlfriends Day

One of my childhood girlfriends I've know since I was 5 years old sent me an email for Girlfriends Day. I loved the sentiment of the email but even more, it reminded me of the love I have for all girlfriends in my life who continue to uplift me, encourage me, and think the best of me... even when I don't think the best about myself. So to all my girlfriends, sister friends and fellow readers this one is for you...

Life is
Too short to wake up with
regrets.
So love
the people
who treat you right.
Love the ones who don't
just because you can.
Believe everything happens for
a reason.
If you get a second chance,
grab it with both hands.
If it changes your life, let it.
Kiss slowly.
Forgive quickly.

I'll add... live life with purpose, laugh out loud, pray often, ask for help when you need it, forgive everyone, love hard and dream BIG! Happy Girlfriend Day!

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Once upon a time in a land far away, a beautiful, independent, self-assured princess happened upon a frog as she sat contemplating ecological issues on the shores of an unpolluted pond in a verdant meadow near her castle. The frog hopped into the princess' lap and said: " Elegant Lady, I was once a handsome prince, until an evil witch cast a spell upon me. One kiss from you, however, and I will turn back into the dapper, young prince that I am and then, my sweet, we can marry and set up housekeeping in your castle with my mother, where you can prepare my meals, clean my clothes, bear my children, and forever feel grateful and happy doing so". That night, as the princess dined sumptuously on lightly sautéed frog legs seasoned in a white wine and onion cream sauce, she chuckled and thought to herself: "I don't think so"! Author Unknown

Speak and Live Your Truth

Relationships are complex things. I liken them to a great big jigsaw puzzle with each of us trying to find our corner where the pieces fit. One thing I know for sure, your word, your intentions, your choices can bring a relationship closer to heaven or send it diving into the depths of hell. If I had to chose one quality for me that stands out above the rest that helps to strengthen a relationship... it would integrity.

Wikipedia defines Integrity as: consistency of actions, values, methods, measures, principles, expectations and outcome. Integrity may be seen as the quality of having a sense of honesty and truthfulness in regard to the motivations for one's actions.

The key phrase for me is "consistency of actions". That which you repeatedly do creates your reality. Oh, and honesty, HONESTY is right up there at the top of my list. I never knew how important honesty was until I dealt with a very dishonest person. Even before that encounter I always try to tell the truth... even when I don't want to (although my friends would say I still have to work on my delivery). Sometimes I think that me being so forthright gives me the liberty to take the moral high road. I've come to realize, however, that my Truth with a big "T" is only one half of the story. Other people can tell their Truth and with all honesty think they are being consistent in their actions and true to their word. I'm not here to judge. I'm not here to point out rights and wrongs. As I struggle with the friendships in my life I wanted to share what has helped me... so that I don't turn left... when I know I should be turning right. Maybe you'll find something in it to help you also.

Living with integrity means:

• Not settling for less than what you know you deserve in your relationships.
  
• Asking for what you want and need from others.
  
• Speaking your truth, even though it might create conflict or tension.
  
• Behaving in ways that are in harmony with your personal values.
  
• Making choices based on what you believe, and not what others believe Barbara De Angelis
  

I'll add... treat others as you want to be treated. It is just that simple and it is just that hard.